Life abroad is beautiful, life-changing… and also incredibly real.
In this video shot a couple of months ago, Patrick shares a deeply personal update: what it actually looks like to navigate terminal illness, family responsibilities, and grief while building a life in Costa Rica, and why stepping back for a season doesn’t mean Costa Rica “didn’t work.”
We’ll talk about:
– Why so many people leave Costa Rica within 2 years
– The real reasons some stay and some go
– How caregiving, aging parents, adult children, and finances shape your choices
– The truth about “gray areas”: seasonal living, part-time moves, pauses, and coming back later
Patrick also share why he is taking a leave of absence to be with his family right now, and how Your Pura Vida will continue to support our clients and community through this season.
Takeaways
Living abroad can be fulfilling but comes with challenges.
Many people leave Costa Rica within two years due to unmet expectations.
It’s important to have the right support structure when relocating.
Life changes can impact your ability to stay in Costa Rica.
Taking a pause from life abroad is not a failure.
Living abroad is not a binary choice; flexibility is key.
You can have a base in both countries if needed.
It’s okay to reevaluate your living situation as life evolves.
Support systems are crucial for a successful expatriate experience.
Not everyone should move to Costa Rica, but many can thrive with guidance.